HELLO MAMASITAS AND MOMISITAS AND SOON TO BES
How are you guys and how's your Sunday going, hope smooth...have you be following #Tsquared2016...OK for those who don't know it's OAP toolz wedding and it's taking place in DUBAI....thinking aloud: it's a destination wedding....why do i now have bad feelings about Dubai weddings....but the pics are gooooorgeous and the celebrities that attended nailed it with their serious slaying. So today's post is really a big deal me for and i finally decided to be open with you guys after all you guys have been supportive of my
blog for a long long time even though most of you don't comment and i don't know why because you can comment anonymously if you are the shy type. Yea, so i had to Cesarean operation for Ifenna and you know it's a major operation and it's a testimony that i am OK and baby is OK....in fact my two kids are testimonies cause they both came with their different challenges but i thank God almighty who is ever faithful and gracious for everything and everyone who supported me, prayed for me, loved me, assured me, came to visit and stayed with me in the hospital.
THESE ARE THE 5 THINGS I LEARNT FROM HAVING A CESAREAN OPERATION
1: DON'T EVER THINK CESAREAN IS AN EVIL THING TO DO OR IT'S OF THE DEVIL LIKE SOME PEOPLE WILL SAY, IF YOU ARE AT A POINT WHERE THE DOCTORS SAY OK, IT'S TIME..PLEASE GO AHEAD AND SAVE YOU AND YOUR BABY'S LIFE AFTER ALL IT'S GOD THAT GAVE THE DOCTORS AND MIDWIFES THAT SENSE TO HELP YOU OUT WHEN UNFORESEEN CIRCUMSTANCES COME.
Cause i can remember that after telling most people that i did Cesarean operation, the way they exclaim like why did you let the devil take charge instead of telling me sorry for the pain i was going through abi went through. My dear brethren, when you will let the devil take charge is when you start delaying and hoping magic will happen, Don't get me wrong miracles happen but an alternative to normal labor especially when it's an emergency is a very very big miracle. So use your teeth to count your tongue....
2: Never look down on a woman that did Cesarean because somehow she's even going through more pain than you that did normal labor.
3: After having a cesarean, you have to force your bladder to pee and the pain that you feel is out of this world, i didn't even know i was peeing until i stood up to do something and saw that a line was coming out of my pee pee area and it was connected to a bag and i can remember when they finally removed it and i felt like peeing...It was vey horrible, i was actually crying and trust naija nurses, instead them to calm you down or use psychology on you na so so in fact the nurse the doctor told to guide me how to pee was actually eyeing me asin serious one o.
A quick tip: after they remove that bag...It actually has a name but i have forgotten it....don't let your bladder get full, try to pee every time so you can get used to it...the moment you let your bladder get full, you have to force it so the pee can come out and when you try to force it, the pain is so much and it feels like your wound wants to open even though it won't open so the fear of opening the wound plus the pain will make urinating difficult. So basically just pee every time or as much as you can.Ok
4: It's more expensive than the normal labor, so you have to come prepared as in serious ego cause the buy buy is not here and trust naija hospitals nah...they will want to use your head.
5: Most women don't initially want to do it but because of reasons beyond our control it just happens. Like me i didn't plan to do it, i was going through normal labor and the moment i was induced, things changed...my ife was having fetal distress and after watching it for a while and nothing was improving, we decided to do the needed.
That;s all i can remember for now, but if you are too quick to judge a woman that did Cesarean operation, i hope after reading this you will change for the better. i love you for reading and till my next post
NB: If you comment, you stand a chance of winning recharge cards this week, so don't forget to comment and also share, cause this post will definitely help someone.
XOXO
How are you guys and how's your Sunday going, hope smooth...have you be following #Tsquared2016...OK for those who don't know it's OAP toolz wedding and it's taking place in DUBAI....thinking aloud: it's a destination wedding....why do i now have bad feelings about Dubai weddings....but the pics are gooooorgeous and the celebrities that attended nailed it with their serious slaying. So today's post is really a big deal me for and i finally decided to be open with you guys after all you guys have been supportive of my
blog for a long long time even though most of you don't comment and i don't know why because you can comment anonymously if you are the shy type. Yea, so i had to Cesarean operation for Ifenna and you know it's a major operation and it's a testimony that i am OK and baby is OK....in fact my two kids are testimonies cause they both came with their different challenges but i thank God almighty who is ever faithful and gracious for everything and everyone who supported me, prayed for me, loved me, assured me, came to visit and stayed with me in the hospital.
THESE ARE THE 5 THINGS I LEARNT FROM HAVING A CESAREAN OPERATION
1: DON'T EVER THINK CESAREAN IS AN EVIL THING TO DO OR IT'S OF THE DEVIL LIKE SOME PEOPLE WILL SAY, IF YOU ARE AT A POINT WHERE THE DOCTORS SAY OK, IT'S TIME..PLEASE GO AHEAD AND SAVE YOU AND YOUR BABY'S LIFE AFTER ALL IT'S GOD THAT GAVE THE DOCTORS AND MIDWIFES THAT SENSE TO HELP YOU OUT WHEN UNFORESEEN CIRCUMSTANCES COME.
Cause i can remember that after telling most people that i did Cesarean operation, the way they exclaim like why did you let the devil take charge instead of telling me sorry for the pain i was going through abi went through. My dear brethren, when you will let the devil take charge is when you start delaying and hoping magic will happen, Don't get me wrong miracles happen but an alternative to normal labor especially when it's an emergency is a very very big miracle. So use your teeth to count your tongue....
2: Never look down on a woman that did Cesarean because somehow she's even going through more pain than you that did normal labor.
3: After having a cesarean, you have to force your bladder to pee and the pain that you feel is out of this world, i didn't even know i was peeing until i stood up to do something and saw that a line was coming out of my pee pee area and it was connected to a bag and i can remember when they finally removed it and i felt like peeing...It was vey horrible, i was actually crying and trust naija nurses, instead them to calm you down or use psychology on you na so so in fact the nurse the doctor told to guide me how to pee was actually eyeing me asin serious one o.
A quick tip: after they remove that bag...It actually has a name but i have forgotten it....don't let your bladder get full, try to pee every time so you can get used to it...the moment you let your bladder get full, you have to force it so the pee can come out and when you try to force it, the pain is so much and it feels like your wound wants to open even though it won't open so the fear of opening the wound plus the pain will make urinating difficult. So basically just pee every time or as much as you can.Ok
4: It's more expensive than the normal labor, so you have to come prepared as in serious ego cause the buy buy is not here and trust naija hospitals nah...they will want to use your head.
5: Most women don't initially want to do it but because of reasons beyond our control it just happens. Like me i didn't plan to do it, i was going through normal labor and the moment i was induced, things changed...my ife was having fetal distress and after watching it for a while and nothing was improving, we decided to do the needed.
That;s all i can remember for now, but if you are too quick to judge a woman that did Cesarean operation, i hope after reading this you will change for the better. i love you for reading and till my next post
NB: If you comment, you stand a chance of winning recharge cards this week, so don't forget to comment and also share, cause this post will definitely help someone.
XOXO
Fine Mummy. Great post,you're right. Women who go through caesarean should not be jundged or termed as lazy. Its not just you that's having a bad feeling about Dubai weddings o. I tell you, but I've really just learnt to keep the life of celebrities out of my way honestly.
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LOL...THANKS FOR THE COMMENT
DeleteThank God for safety abeg that's the most important thing,while I was pregnant for my son is watched videos of both normal and cs birth just incase,I was really prepared becos u can't really tell how it all goes down that day,but at the end I had a normal delivery without any cut or tear,even without cut the area was hurting so I cud imagine wat someone that had cut was goin thru,God made us strong,anyway u end up bringing ur baby into world doesn't matter,at the end is all to the Glory of God
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DeleteThank God for safety abeg that's the most important thing,while I was pregnant for my son is watched videos of both normal and cs birth just incase,I was really prepared becos u can't really tell how it all goes down that day,but at the end I had a normal delivery without any cut or tear,even without cut the area was hurting so I cud imagine wat someone that had cut was goin thru,God made us strong,anyway u end up bringing ur baby into world doesn't matter,at the end is all to the Glory of God
ReplyDeleteMY SISTER, THANK GOD, THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS
DeleteThank God for safety abeg that's the most important thing,while I was pregnant for my son is watched videos of both normal and cs birth just incase,I was really prepared becos u can't really tell how it all goes down that day,but at the end I had a normal delivery without any cut or tear,even without cut the area was hurting so I cud imagine wat someone that had cut was goin thru,God made us strong,anyway u end up bringing ur baby into world doesn't matter,at the end is all to the Glory of God
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DeleteI really enjoyed and learnt alot from this post, thank you, i will always drop by here daily.
ReplyDeleteReally glad you enjoyed reading it and the fact that u learnt a lot is so amazing....hope to see more. God bless
DeleteCongrats girl! Sorry it's coming late! I wondered why I wasn't getting your updates then realised you've changed your URL. x
ReplyDeleteYes o. I had to. This one is originally what I wanted. Glad I finally figured it out. And thanks again....your blog inspires me. Hope we do a collabo soon
DeleteYay deka i finally mde my first comment on ur blog today.. so this particular write up touched me cos i almost went tru CS myself bt finally had a cut which was so painful to heal.. sitting down to breastfeed for d first week was hell but in the end we endure it all for our little ones. How are you and Ife doing?
ReplyDeletewe are very fine, thanks, so glad you commented. how is your lil one doing, hope good
DeleteYay deka i finally mde my first comment on ur blog today.. so this particular write up touched me cos i almost went tru CS myself bt finally had a cut which was so painful to heal.. sitting down to breastfeed for d first week was hell but in the end we endure it all for our little ones. How are you and Ife doing?
ReplyDeletewe are very fine, thanks, so glad you commented. how is your lil one doing, hope good. that pain eh, chai we really endure for the sake of the blessing God gave to us
DeleteLmao @ evil. I came across your blog via the link you left on FIN. I also live in Abuja and had my baby through cs at Nisa Premier. I was 8 months and my blood pressure was through the roof. I didn't want a c-section mainly because my skin is prone to keloids but even after all the casting and binding against it, I ended up in the theatre and with a keloid scar to show for it Lmao. What matters as I've come to realise is good health abeg. Anyway, nice blog and maybe we can meet someday soon. *hugs*
ReplyDeleteYes ooo. I hope to meet oo..we can fix a date ...
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