So i saw a post on naijasinglegirl: DATING AN OLDER MAN:THE CON and it dawned
on me that i am marrying an older man and i have really seen things in my age especially from all those busy bodies who won't mind their business. First of all my hubby is in his 30s so he's not too old but due to my own age the gap is much..so this are some of the things people assume when they hear you are married to someone older than you.
People assume i married him for money
Some times when people see me with him and our kids they ask me for the kids moms, like you are the concubine or whatever they are thinking.
Sometimes we think differently,
People tend to just ask you for cash, unto say your hubby is older so he is suppose to be very loaded and has a lot to spare
People assume he is the bread winner, even if you have something to do or you are working
Are there any more i missed, please leave in the comment box...i love you for reading and till my next post...XOXO
on me that i am marrying an older man and i have really seen things in my age especially from all those busy bodies who won't mind their business. First of all my hubby is in his 30s so he's not too old but due to my own age the gap is much..so this are some of the things people assume when they hear you are married to someone older than you.
People assume i married him for money
Some times when people see me with him and our kids they ask me for the kids moms, like you are the concubine or whatever they are thinking.
Sometimes we think differently,
People tend to just ask you for cash, unto say your hubby is older so he is suppose to be very loaded and has a lot to spare
People assume he is the bread winner, even if you have something to do or you are working
Are there any more i missed, please leave in the comment box...i love you for reading and till my next post...XOXO
lol, people expect you to be the mumu in the marriage when in actual fact we indirectly control the men.
ReplyDeleteLaugh out loud sis
DeleteLaugh out loud sis
DeleteHumm. I can't just Laugh
ReplyDeleteLol bros
DeleteLol....funny comments buh true!!! An older man actually treats you like a lady, pampers you and dere are some things that you do dat you expect him to get angry at buh he just overlooks it....
ReplyDeleteTrue talk my sister
DeleteInteresting, probably encourages you to be the best at whatever you do if he isn't obsessive. Lol.
ReplyDeleteYes o sis #finlove
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