5 THINGS EVERY NIGERIAN MOM OF BOYS CAN RELATE TO

Heloo damsels.... So today I"ll be recognizing our moms out here who are putting in all the work for our darling kids. It's not easy o. I must say, any body that tells you it is is a bloody liar.

So I'm sure most moms of boys can relate to this post. You know how when you deliver and you "call someone to tell the great news and they ask you wetin you born? and you are like "BOY" and you hear things like "weldone o"." una don try". "Ah, nah now you come" and I'm like what the f*** and now it's as if i have made it my life goal to educate people on the importance of a female child sometimes i get the "what the f*** is this one even saying' and sometimes some pretend to understand and you can see that look of " DEY THERE MAKE PANT DEY WEAR YOU" or " YOU GET LUCK SAY YOU BORN BOY, IF NOT, YOU FOR KNOW WHERE YOUR MOUTH DEY WINE DEY GO" 

Meanwhile, this post is not to say which one is better or to throw shade, It's just to have fun and somehow have a good laugh.

SO HERE ARE THE FIVE THINGS

When people start hailing your husband, Like "bros you fire well"....ahah which kin talk is that so there is a seperate firing for boy and girl. I can remember when i was already pregnant but i haven't told my parents yet and my mom sent me a text one cozy night to tell me the style i should do to have a baby boy. I and hubby laughed loud and till today, he thinks my parents are just firers.

Every body starts telling you how you are now a real wife of the family( na now you done) what does that even mean. So i no done before.

After all the i have born labor jubilation and the second thing that comes to mind is the pain of circumcision. Is it just me but i almost had high blood pressure thinking about it from the day the scan came out BOY. after screaming my lungs out at ECHO SCAN at Garki, i realized my self and was like. " baby (me talking to hubby) so we will now do him circumcision. I couldn't bear it and on that day, i cried like i was the one going through the pain. I nearly didn't go through with it until i saw how his peepee looked and then i fainted , woke up and gave up.

When your son is not as rough as the way you hear stories of boys and you are like he might be a sissy. Most times when women make this comment like, i want him to be a manly man. I'm like the struggle is real.

And when you see your boy playing around or with a cute girl and you are like, Go Ife, Go Ife Go Ife. but if it's your girl, you will turn to monitoring spirit/detective/prayer warrior. ( I do that for Jina)

Can you relate to any of these. Let me know if you enjoyed reading this post and add yours too if you have any.  Don't forget to comment, share and subscribe. I love you for reading and till my next post

xoxo

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